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19 September...

Maknanya dah 19 hari puasa, it means that Bazleen pun dah 19 hari puasa. I'm proud because dia baru 5 years old and tak miss lagi puasa, but a little bit annoyed bila orang2 lain sort of macam pandang ada sikit senget dekat teman. As if macam teman ni memaksa anak2 teman puasa. (Balqis miss 5 hari dah sebab demam and kena dmit hari tu). If orang lain ada problem nak soh anak2 puasa, I have problems to suruh Bazleen jangan puasa. Kita tengok pun kesian, especially awal2 puasa dulu. But like I said a zilions times, dia yang nak puasa. Tiada paksaan, tiada janji nak bagi upah2. Dia yang nak puasa. Dia kata tak puasa tak boleh raya. Betul la kan?! Anyway adik, whatever it is, Mama is proud very of you. Mama ingat mama dulu 6 taun baru puasa penuh, 5 tahun puasa 10 hari.. (tu pun main + 1/2 1/2 hari. hahahaha).

Happy Birthday to Abang Radhi.. yang ke 13. :)

Iftar at Le Meridien

Zul attended training for I dont know what, and why. But I know when, 9-12 sept and where Le Meridien. Since he was fasting, he of course cannot eat the food they provided, breaks, lunch, tea. So the hotel bagi 4 free bukak puasa coupons, for the 4 days. Kira bayar balik la ni. He gets another 4 from his friends yang puasa but cannot use the coupon la, have to go back to their country, Indonesia and India. (Kalau tak silap). We were planning to go saturday mlm, but B1 was admitted. You see the coupon expires on the 15th, so nak tak nak we have to go that saturday. Alhamdulillah Dr dia bagi keluar kejap, and off we go la. Ah nikmat tak terhingga.. Balqis pun makan, her favourite dish, Spaghetti with white sauce. Alhamdulillah, berselera dia makan.

Bgtau nurse nak balik by pukul 9pm.. tapi sampai around 9.45pm. Lambat. Hehehe.. Malam tu we spend the night there, suka adik.

B1 was admitted... again... :(

As mentioned, B1 ni asyik dok on and off demam aje, for about 2 month dah now. Went to the panel clinic, and always get the same answer, antibody tak kuat, immune system tak kuat. At first I just go with the flow, and tried to increase antibodynya. Giving her spirulina, Scotts Emulsion, Vit C and fruits. But still dia dok demam. So the last time dia demam was on th 9th, demam tinggi betul. Terus shoot up. Went to the panel, dapat medicine, fever kurang sikit, but she vomitted. 4 to 5 times, that nite only. Dah vomit fever naik la balik, ubat ke mana apa ke mana. Then on the 10th, her fever naik balik, that nite, bawak pergi SMC (now known as KPJ Selangor) emergency, dr situ refer soh jumpa pakar the next day. Balik, B1 muntah2 lagi. Sabar2.. esok pi jumpa Dr Ling. (Her peads).

So the next day, gi la balik panel clinic, nak dapatkan refer letter, punya la susah nak bagi. I dont know why. The dr seems like blaming me not taking good care of the kids, sbb tu la selalu demam. I on the other hand feels like there's more to it than just a simple demam. I insisted on the letter, in which the dr said that B1 will have to be admitted because of dehydration (muntah2). I said OK. So dapat la refer letter yang diidam2kan. I want that refer letter so that the hospital can do total medical checkup, I want to rule out everything so that I can accept that B1 demam because of me. (But No Way la.. hehehe).

Ok, back tu the story, the panel dr ambik temp B1 it was 38.1, so off to SMC to meet Dr Ling. Arrived there about 30 mins later, the nurse ambik temp and to my surprise (no la.. tak turun...) her temp naik to 40.4. Tekejut everybody, terus nurse bawak masuk bilik and boh ubat dlm b**t*t. Cepatnye temp naik. And as I expected, B1 must be admitted. Blood will be drawn, to rule out denggi, and urine to be cultured, to see the amount of protien.

We are entitled for a single bed room, but as expected also, no single bed room is available. We opt for double KIV single, WHAT?! double also tak dak? Ok la.. 4 bedded KIV single. Maka masuk la di bilik 201.

room 201

Lps tu lewat petang dapat pulak double bedded room, maka bertukar la ke sana.

room 215

Maka bermalam la semalam disitu. Pada keesokan harinya, dapat pindah ke single bed room. In this room, Yah tolong teman. Thanks Yah. Penat seh, 2 malam sebelum tu dok berjaga sebab Balqis dok vomit aje. Tapi my mistake la, balik pun tak boleh tidur, ye la.. risau anak kat sepital. Esok nye selepas sahur terus pergi sana, tengok2 dah jaga anakku sorang tu. Penemannye tengah tenganga tidur.. hehehehe.

The same day, dapat single room. Ah lega, bukan mengelat ke apa ke.. 1 - sebab we are entitled.. so rugi la tak ambik kan. Kalau kena bayar sendiri Gomen aje la jawabnya. 2nd - sbb we are loud. Cakap sebatu blh dengar, and memang bising. Memang akan menganggu orang la. So Single bed better. So on friday we moved to 218. Memang berkampung abih... tengok le kalau tak caya.


Lega dapat masuk single room, sebab lepas tu Balqis start vomit balik. Dr dah stop antibiotik thinking she's ok dah, but the bacteria in her body act up again so muntah2 la. Terpaksa start balik antibiotik and if dia still vomit, drip kena pasang balik. Alhamdulillah lepas makan antibiotik (with the help of ubat tahan muntah) dia dah stop vomit. But another problem arise. Dia tak mau makan, takut muntah. The solution, anything she wants to eat. She was discharge on Sunday 14th September.

Balqis was diagnosed with Bacteria infection because of Urinary tract infection, that's the reason for the on and off fever. Luckily it was not serious and tak effect her kidney.

p/s - Saturday mlm Sunday, all (papa, mama, and adik) of us teman kakak dkt hospital. Happy Adik.

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Ini sudah bagus... acuan tepat. 1/2 - 1/2 hehehe

Yet.... another year...

Happy Birthday Balqis..
10th September 2001


Cake - Janji akan beli this weekend. Disebabkan puasa and kek adik belum habis. hehehe


Ya Allah, jadikanlah anak-anak kami, anak-anak yang pintar dan bertaqwa, yang menjadi harapan untuk memimpin negara pada masa hadapan, serta golongkanlah mereka dikalangan orang-orang yang soleh dan solehah.

p/s- Kakak demam panas start yesterday, tapi berjaya habis kan puasa. But last nite muntah2 tak berenti. Temperature high 102F. Hari ni tak dapat nak puasa. Fever still ada, sian Kakak.. demam lagi. Nak kena bawak gi buat thorough medical check up ni. Asyik demam mengejut aja.


Adik punya turn jaga kakak.. kakak demam.
On the way to ambik Dacik

B1 and B2..

Most of the time.. both of them are like cats and dogs. They fight constantly.. with B2 having 'tukang nyakat' as her middle name and B1 'suka menjerit', it's like chaos, with capital C, around here. Yea yea... I know i know, it's only 2 and furthermore they are girls. But you should meet them. Then you'll agree when I say, 2 is definitely enough. Hahaha.

I've been getting these remarks (from strangers who've spend at least a few moments with 'em)
  1. Lasaknya, macam budak-budak lelaki
  2. Budak2 ni tak reti penat ke? active 24 jam.
  3. Laaa perempuan ke.. ingat lelaki.. panjat sana panjat sini...
  4. Hypernye budak2 ni.
  5. Happynya budak2 ni... suka tengok. (the best remarks yang pernah dapat)
Yes... my kids are hyperactive... but they are good kids, and no.. they dont have ADHD (Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder). They are just happy and likes to have fun. I do get some peace every now and then, when they are nice and loving with each other. I have prove tau.. :)


I love you, I love you too



And when you see pictures like these, it makes you wonder if 2 is actually enough. Hehehehe




Another year..

Happy Birthday Bazleen..
7th September 2003



Cake - American Chocolate from Baker's Cottage. So happy dapat kek ni. Pilih sendiri ni. Tak de sambutan like before, just potong cake time malam. Sian anak mama kena tunggu lewat mlm nak potong kek. Next year pun nampak gaya macam ni jugak la. Birthday time bulan puasa.

Ya Allah, jadikanlah anak-anak kami, anak-anak yang pintar dan bertaqwa, yang menjadi harapan untuk memimpin negara pada masa hadapan, serta golongkanlah mereka dikalangan orang-orang yang soleh dan solehah.




Lama tak menjenguk...

blog nih. Yah pulak sibuk dok soh update. Banyak lagi benda boleh buat selain dari update blog nih.. kan kan kan..?! Hehehe tapi tak pe.. bagi can aje la..

So... now it's recap time..

Firstly... Happy Birthday to Papa... on the 19th of August...

Our plan to balik Kampung during school holidays.. terpaksa dibatalkan...
Gara2, cik Puin kena admitted from 12 - 14... boleh aja nak balik.. since 16 baru start cuti kan.. but atas nasihat papa, (katanya cuaca tak menentu sekarang ni.. it's better for you not to go... budak2 pun baru baik demam), and sebagai anak2 yang baik, kami (xpin, zul and myself) pun ikut la. Alhamdulillah tak balik.. sebab teman pulak yg demam, terbongkang aje sepanjang cuti sekolah. Budak2 pun bergirang dengan riangnya, semak rumah.. kalah tongkang pecah.

Start aje start sekolah, maka start balik la ke'busy'an. Bukan busy apa.. busy melawat sepital. Cik Puin yang cerdik ni.. pi pilih time budak2 sekolah nak operate. Kalu time budak2 sekolah susah sikit nak teman, sebab nak kena ulang alik, ambik budak2 dengan b1 sekolah pagi petang. (Actually masa admitted previously.. dr dah diagnosed her having acute pansinusitis, kena operation ASAP, dah minah ni pi check out dari sepital la pulak.. lepak kat rumah.. and scheduled for op (operation) on monday start sekolah tu. Hampeh). Tapi bagus jugak la, tidak dia dok sorang la.. since teman pun down with flu fever, coughing etc etc. Hehehe. Tapi apa apa pun Alhamdulillah.. dah lepas operate.. semua dah ok.. but cik Puin still on MC...



La dah start bulan posa.. meaning lagi busy la teman. My two kids tak banyak songeh nak posa kali ni.. sebab dah biasa posa dah sebelum2 ni. Especially B1, dia even ganti posa dia yang dia tetinggal last year. Bagus betul budak ni. B2 siap bgtau teacher.. I cannot eat and drink sebab I puasa. Only at night I can eat. Saya puasa lama2.. (in case kot2 teacher dia ingat dia puasa 1 day only). Last year B2 puasa for 25 days... at her own will tau. Nobody force her. This year pun we dont force her.. dia nak puasa. So far... dah settle 4 hari. Ada one incident happened today... will story later. As for B1, her target to puasa penuh this year. After only managed 29 days last year. (consider full la.. sbb the one day tak posa tu dia dah ganti... ikut mama dia ganti posa. Dah nak posa sangat.. bg aje la kan. Benda baik patut digalakkan, lgpun dia ok aje puasa). As usual.. sapa posa.. boleh pilih nak apa for berbuka.


menu berbuka puasa yesterday


p/s- Alkisah incident yang berlaku hari ni, lunch hour, B1, B2 and Yah.. dok melayan tengok Hindustan (Kuch Kuch hota Hai), Punya la yah dok babysit.. sampai tak perasan yang B2 dah pegi dapur and ambik ais makan..! Dah makan 4 5 bijik kecik (or so) baru la Yah perasan and tegur. Maka B2 ni pun naik atas.. dengan muka sedih yang amat, ngadap cik puan besar (teman ler tuh.. hehehe).

B2: Ma.. adik makan ais besar ni aje (besar 5 sen)
Me: Laa.. kenapa adik makan.. adik kan puasa..
B2: Adik lapar sangat2 (muka sedih bangat)
Me: Macam ni puasa adik dah batal la.. Adik tak boleh puasa la...
B2: *crying*... sedih yang amat... berbesen2 air mata
Me: Adik lapar kan?
B2: Nodding
Me: Since adik dah bukak puasa, adik turun la makan...
B2: Shaking her head... crying even louder...!
Me: Kenapa adik... adik tak nak makan ke?
B2: Tak nak.. adik nak puasa...
Me: Adik kan dah makan ais tadi, kira dah bukak puasa dah la...
B2: *crying even lauder*
Me: Ok come hear.. (hugging her). Adik nak puasa ye..?
B2: Nodding (still Sobbing)
Me: Adik tau tak makan tu boleh batal puasa..
B2: Nodding
Me: Adik dah makan ais tadi.. so kira puasa adik dah batal la.. adik dah tak puasa la.. adik tau tak..?
B2: Geleng2, Apa lagi yang batal puasa ma?
Me: Explaning to her.. in layman term as possible.. makan, minum, masukkan anything dlm mulut and telan.. korek idung telinga..
B2: Kalau adik sediakan air.. batal tak puasa adik..?
Me: Tak batal...
B2: Adik nak puasa...
Me: Ok.. adik puasa la..
B2: Smilling all the way..
I let her puasa terus.. because.. to her.. Ais (ice) is not food, and bukan drinks jugak. So dia ingat boleh la. Maknye pun tak explain betul2 sbb ingat dia still kecik lagi.. (baru nak masuk 5 taun this sunday) and tak paham.. My mistake..
And also.. if I ask her to pecah puasa.. she'll be crying all day..
Itu la alkisah...


Anyway Selamat berpuasa to All..